konsep islam tentang kesetaraan gender dan tafsir Wanita "setengah" Akal

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Barangkali kita pernah mendengar hadits yang menerangkan wanita itu kurang akal dan agamanya. Apa yang dimaksud dengan kalimat tersebut? Apakah itu berarti merendahkan wanita?

Hadits yang kami maksudkan di atas adalah hadits berikut ini,

مَا رَأَيْتُ مِنْ نَاقِصَاتِ عَقْلٍ وَدِينٍ أَغلَبُ لِلُبِّ الرَّجُلِ الْحَازِمِ مِنْ إِحْدَاكُنَّ. فَقِيلَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، مَا نُقْصَانُ عَقْلِهَا؟ قاَلَ: أَلَيْسَتْ شَهَادَةُ الْمَرْأَتَيْنِ بِشَهَادَةِ رَجُلٍ؟ قِيلَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، مَا نُقصَانُ دِينِهَا؟ قَالَ: أَلَيْسَتْ إِذَا حَاضَتْ لَمْ تُصَلِّ وَلَمْ تَصُمْ

“Aku tidak pernah melihat orang yang kurang akal dan agamanya paling bisa mengalahkan akal lelaki yang kokoh daripada salah seorang kalian (kaum wanita).” Maka ada yang bertanya, “Wahai Rasulullah, apa maksudnya kurang akalnya wanita?” Beliau menjawab, “Bukankah persaksian dua orang wanita sama dengan persaksian seorang lelaki?” Ditanyakan lagi, “Ya Rasulullah, apa maksudnya wanita kurang agamanya?” "Bukankah bila si wanita haid ia tidak shalat dan tidak pula puasa?”, jawab beliau. (Muttafaqun ‘alaih, HR. Bukhari no. 1462 dan Muslim no. 79)

Mengenai maksud hadits di atas diterangkan oleh Syaikh ‘Abdul Kairm Khudair, ulama senior di kota Riyadh Saudi Arabia dan saat ini menjadi pengajar di Jami’ah Malik Su’ud (King Saud University Riyadh). Beliau ditanya, “Apa maksud kurang akal dan agamanya bagi wanita sebagaimana disebutkan dalam hadits ‘wanita itu kurang akal dan agama’?”

Syaikh hafizhohullah menjawab,

Tafsir tentang makna kurang akal dan agama telah diterangkan dalam hadits muttafaqun ‘alaih (riwayat Bukhari-Muslim). Bahwa yang dimaksud kurang akal adalah karena persaksian wanita itu separuh dari persaksian laki-laki sebagaimana disebutkan dalam ayat,

فَإِنْ لَمْ يَكُونَا رَجُلَيْنِ فَرَجُلٌ وَامْرَأَتَانِ

“Jika tak ada dua oang lelaki, maka (boleh) seorang lelaki dan dua orang perempuan” (QS. Al Baqarah: 282). Inilah yang dimaksud wanita itu kurang akal.

Sedangkan yang dimaksud wanita itu kurang agama adalah karena pada satu waktu (yaitu kala haidh atau nifas, pen), wanita tidak puasa dan tidak shalat. Inilah tafsir yang langsung diterangkan oleh Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam (secara marfu’) dan bukan hasil ijtihad seorang pun. Adapun kondisi wanita di mana mereka berada pada kondisi separuh dari pria adalah dalam lima keadaan, yaitu dalam persaksian, diyat, warisan, aqiqah, pembebasan budak –yaitu siapa yang memerdekakan dua orang budak wanita sama dengan memerdekakan seorang budak laki-laki. Dalam hadits disebutkan, “Barangsiapa yang memerdekakan seorang budak laki-laki, maka ia akan selamat dari siksa neraka. Barangsiapa yang memerdekakan dua budak wanita, maka ia akan selamat dari siksa neraka.”

Semoga dengan penjelasan ini semakin jelas apa yang dimaksud wanita kurang akal dan agamanya. Semoga dengan benar memahami hal ini tidak menyebabkan kita merendahkan wanita. Karena kenyataannya pula banyak wanita yang mengungguli pria dalam hal kecerdasan dan memahami agama.

Wallahu waliyyut taufiq.



@ Ummul Hamam, Riyadh – KSA

11 Dzulqo’dah 1432 H (09/10/2011)

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kesetaraan gender selalu jadi isu utama non muslim untuk menyerang islam..

tak perlu berkata emansipasi dll dsb

hukum alam saja sudah membuktikan bahwa kesetaraan pria dan wanita tidak bisa dibandingkan apple to apple...

wanita punya tempatnya sendiri untuk menjadi mulia begitupun pria dimata islam...

salahkah islam menempatkan wanita pada kodratnya???

seorang pria pemimpin sebuah negara belum tentu lebih mulia dari seorang ibu yang mendidik anaknya dengan baik...

lihat efek negatifnya jika konsep emansipasi berkembang secara global akan banyak manusia yg kehilangan kasih ibunya...padahal pendidikan anak dimulai dari kasih sayang seorang ibu...

to all non muslim...

saya tanya ke hati nurani anda...

ibu yg terkenal, berkuasa, tapi kurang kasih sayang terhadap anda sbg anaknya

atau ibu yg setiap pagi membuatkan anda sarapan, cemas atas kepulangan anda dan mendekap anda ketika sakit???

Revolt wrote:Munafik hahahaha, mulia sekali sih perlakuan tuan arabmu di sana hahaha

tak bisa berkata-kata hanya haha hihi

Revolt wrote:

Revolt wrote:Saudi Arabia

Islamic Law and Gender Discrimination

Saudi Arabia is a nation literally governed by religious tradition. The holy book of Islam, the Qur'an, is the constitution of the kingdom, and the primary source of reference for legislation and judicial rulings. The oppression of women is intrenched in Saudi religious tradition, and subsequently governance. The mistreatment of women within a society has consequences extending far beyond women themselves. When arrested, homosexuals are often charged with, “behaving like women.” Clearly the oppression of women is a contributing factor to the oppression of other groups.

Sharia Law and the Oppression of Women

No matter their social class, ethnicity, or religious group, Islamic women are treated as property by the males in their lives. Under Sharia Law, also known as Islamic law, many women are killed in the name of “family honor.” In several Islamic countries they believe that the women have a very important role in upholding the family’s reputation. There are many different offenses committed by the women that bring about these “honor killings.” “Marital infidelity, pre-marital sex, flirting, or even failing to serve a meal on time can all be perceived as impugning the family honor.” (Mayell 2) In the Islamic society most marriages are arranged by the fathers and there is an exchange of money that goes along with it. If the women express any desire to choose their own husband they would view this as a punishable offense. This can be viewed as a major act of defiance that damages the honor of the man who negotiated the deal. (Mayell 2)

“The teenage brothers of victims are frequently directed to commit the murder because, as minors, they would be subject to considerably lighter sentencing if there is legal action. Typically, they would serve only three months to a year.” (Mayell 2)

One very important thing that contributes to the continued mistreatment of women in the Islamic culture is the fact that other women in the family go along with and encourage this way of life. It is suggested that violence against women is not a judicial issue, but rather a family issue. (Mayell 1) It is widely stated said that there is nothing to be done about the tradition of “honor killings” due to the fact that the concept of women’s rights is not relevant to the Islamic societies.

SETARA sekali nih ......

To muslimah... baca yang bold biru dan berikutnya ya, ITU FAKTA bukan KECAP MUSLIM MUNAFIK hahahaha

Dasar muslim munafik hahahaha

Bantahlah Pemerintah ARAB sana slim, pertanyaanmu itu sewajarnya KAMU TUJUKAN KE PEMERINTAH ARAB SANA. Bisa mikir??

Kalau tidak sesuai, PROTES ke sana... Hahaha

Apapun perkataanmu di sini, tidak dapat membantah FAKTA dan KENYATAAN yang terjadi di sana slim.

Pemerintah di sana dengan tegas sudah menyatakan bahwa ajaran mereka berdasarkan ALQURAN.

Kalau kamu tidak terima, KOMPLAINLAH ke mereka. Bilang bahwa CARA MEREKA SALAH dan BUKAN DARI AJARAN ISLAM.

Mikir dulu plsss....

Yang munafik si ARAB SAUDI?? YAKIN??

Kenapa tidak kau KOMPLAIN kalau memang tidak sesuai ajaran ISLAM?? jangan munafik kau slim.

Ucapanmu tidak dapat mengubah FAKTA/KENYATAAN yang terjadi di SANA dan Negara-negara Islam lainnya.

Hahaha

Lah BUKTINYA mereka TELAH DENGAN TEGAS MENYATAKAN HAL ITU, DAN ALQURAN ADALAH SANDARAN/DASAR HUKUM MEREKA.

Aduh....bisa mikir tidak sih......hahaha

PERLAKUAN MEREKA TERHADAP KAUM WANITA MEREKA SUDAH SESUAI KORIDOR HUKUM ISLAM, KECUALI HAL ITU TERBUKTI SALAH.

Adakah buktinya mereka tidak sesuai hukum ISLAM?? KALAU SALAH KENAPA TIDAK ADA YANG KOMPLAIN DARI NEGARA-NEGARA ISLAM LAINNYA?? MALAH PERSIS SAMA DENGAN DI IRAN, IRAK, MESIR, AFGHANISTAN dll??

musicman wrote:Kenyataannya kan sudah saya bilang, banyak yg munafik, pernyataan saya memang tidak bisa mengubah apa-apa..

Sm saja seperti anda, teriak anda disinipun tidak akan mengubah apa2, kecuali kita diskusi saling mempertahankan pendapat dan argument dengan cerdas, bukan lempar tanggung jawab saya harus mendebat pemerintah Arab Saudi kan?

Aneh sekali anda ini..masak saya tidak pernah suruh anda konfirmasi ke pemerintah arab saudi tentang sumber anda, tp malah saya disuruh mendebat pemerintah Arab Saudi?

Kenyataan dan Fakta di lapangan susah di bantah ya??

Bacalah lagi pertanyaanmu, saya bukan MUSLIM. Yang melaksanakan HUKUM YANG BERDASARKAN ALQURAN itu adalah mereka, kalau mau tanya ya tanya mereka hahahaha.

Kalau kamu mau membantah FAKTA INI, Bantahlah dahulu mereka sampai akhirnya mereka mengakui bahwa mereka SALAH dan TIDAK SESUAI ALQURAN, baru kamu bisa menyatakan dengan gamblang bahwa mereka ternyata memang SALAH KEPADA KAMI.

Sebelum hal itu terjadi, ucapan KECAPMU kepada kami tidak ada gunanya slim.

Muslim memang kalau sudah menyangkut "tuan"nya selalu berupaya membutakan mata dan telinga, serta selalu mau ngecap hahahaha

Saya sudah katakan, saya tidak pernah menemukan HUkum Islam yg mengajarkan Sistem Dinasti, bahkan Diyat yg melebihi kemampuan si terdakwa..

Itu benar adalah ----> FAKTA, tidak saya bantah

Nah, kalau anda ngotot seperti mereka bahwa yg terjadi di Arab Saudi itu Islami, saya harus mendebat anda untuk bertanggung jawab atas sumber anda atau saya harus mendebat pemerintah Arab Saudi Volt?


Kok kerdil sekali ini..

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwIaYGoLhE0

International equal rights for women will cause World War III and is against Sharia - Saudi cleric


Muslim Brotherhood backlash against UN declaration on women rights



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Muslim Brotherhood backlash against UN declaration on women rights

UN's call to end violence against women would lead to disintegration of Muslim society, says Egypt's ruling party

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Patrick Kingsley in Cairo
The Guardian, Friday 15 March 2013 18.49 GMT

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Egyptian women in an anti-Muslim Brotherhood protest in Cairo. The Brotherhood condemned the UN's declaration for women's rights. Photograph: Amr Nabil/AP

Egypt's Muslim Brotherhood have claimed that a UN declaration calling for an end to violence against women will lead to the "complete disintegration of society".

Delegates at the UN's Commission on the Status of Women (CSW) in New York have spent the last fortnight debating the wording of a declaration that would condemn violence against women. The brotherhood, whose close allies control Egypt's parliament and presidency, slated the declaration in an online statement on Thursday – calling it a decadent and destructive document that undermined Islamic ethics by calling for women to work, travel and use contraception without their husbands' permission.

In a 10-point memorandum, the brotherhood also criticised the declaration for granting women sexual freedom, allowing Muslim women to marry non-Muslims, granting equal rights to homosexual people, and allowing wives full legal rights to take their husbands to court for marital rape.

"This declaration, if ratified, would lead to complete disintegration of society, and would certainly be the final step in the intellectual and cultural invasion of Muslim countries, eliminating the moral specificity that helps preserve cohesion of Islamic societies," the brotherhood 's statement claimed.

The remarks drew a furious response inside Egypt. Soad Shalaby, a spokesperson for Egypt's National Council for Women, said: "How would this declaration lead to a disintegration of society? On the contrary, it will lead to women's integration within society."

Shalaby said it was disingenuous to use Islam to justify the erosion of women's rights. "It is only a misinterpretation of Islam that creates these kinds of statements," she said. "It goes without saying that Islam never encourages violence against women. On the contrary, it gives them rights." She said she thought the brotherhood's outburst was not a fair reflection of the views of many within the Muslim Sisterhood, the brotherhood's female division – let alone the Middle East.

"We're asking them to stop using religion and culture to undermine negotiations and to justify violence against women," said Lynn Darwich, a spokesperson for the Coalition for Sexual and Bodily Rights in Muslim Societies, who is attending the conference in New York.

The brotherhood's statement is also likely to have divided Egypt's delegation at the Commission on the Status of Women, which contains both conservative and liberal members. "On the whole, they have been quiet because of internal divisions within the delegation," said Darwich.

The brotherhood is not the only group to have voiced objections to the UN charter, which has been the subject of bitter debate. Countries such as the Vatican, Pakistan, Iran, Syria and Russia have led the conservative response.

A spokesman for Mohamed Morsi, Egypt's Islamist president who comes from the political wing of the Muslim Brotherhood, attempted to distance himself from the brotherhood's statement, saying he was no longer a member of the organisation. But in an interview with the New York Times, Pakinam al-Sharkawy also appeared to side with some of the brotherhood's arguments, claiming that marital rape was a western rather than Egyptian problem.

Darwich said her remarks showed the Egyptian government was still failing to take women's rights seriously. "This denial that these issues are not ours will make the situation worse," she said. "We need Arab governments to recognise that these are not foreign issues."

Women rights are the subject of an continuing national debate in Egypt: at least 25 women were sexually assaulted in Tahrir Square during recent protests – in what some campaigners claim is a systematic attempt to stop women from protesting.

But the problem goes far beyond Tahrir Square.

According to a 2008 survey by the Egyptian Center for Women's Rights, 83% of Egyptian women have been sexually harassed in their lifetime – while the assault of street children goes widely unreported. Female genital mutilation was banned in 2008, but according to some surveys, up to 90% of Egyptian women may have been subjected to the practice.

The fall of Hosni Mubarak two years ago was supposed to be a turning point for women's rights – but for many campaigners, Egypt has since regressed. The country's new constitution does not safeguard the rights of women, while a quota for women in parliament has been rescinded, meaning that just 2% of MPs elected in 2012 were female – down from 12% in 2010.

"There is a trend that limits the role of women," said Shalaby. "They are trying to make us lose whatever gains we got from the revolution."

• This article was amended on 16 March 2013 to correct the spelling of Lynn Darwich's name. A quote was also corrected. In the original version Darwich was quoted as saying: "We need Egyptians to realise that these are not foreign issues."

Egypt's Muslim Brotherhood: Women's Rights Could Destroy Society, Countries Should 'Reject And Condemn' UN Declaration

Posted: 03/14/2013 5:40 pm EDT

UNITED NATIONS, March 14 (Reuters) - Egypt's ruling Muslim Brotherhood warns that a U.N. declaration on women's rights could destroy society by allowing a woman to travel, work and use contraception without her husband's approval and letting her control family spending.

The Islamist party of President Mohamed Mursi outlined 10 reasons why Muslim countries should "reject and condemn" the declaration, which the U.N. Commission on the Status of Women is racing to negotiate a consensus deal on by Friday.

The Brotherhood, which was elected to power in June, posted the statement on its website, www.ikhwanweb.com, on Thursday.

Egypt has joined Iran, Russia and the Vatican - dubbed an "unholy alliance" by some diplomats - in threatening to derail the women's rights declaration by objecting to language on sexual, reproductive and gay rights.

The Muslim Brotherhood said the declaration would give "wives full rights to file legal complaints against husbands accusing them of rape or sexual harassment, obliging competent authorities to deal husbands punishments similar to those prescribed for raping or sexually harassing a stranger."

U.S. Ambassador Susan Rice last week touted at the commission - a global policy-making body created in 1946 for the advancement of women - progress made by the United States in reducing the rate of violence against women by their partners.

"All 50 states in our union now have laws that treat date rape or spousal rape as just as much of a crime as rape by a stranger," Rice said. "We cannot live in truly free societies, if women and girls are not free to reach their full potential."

The contrasting views show the gap that needs to be breached in negotiations on the declaration, which this year is focused on urging an end to violence against women and girls. The commission failed to agree a declaration last year on a theme of empowering rural women due to similar disagreements.


WORLD IS WATCHING

Egypt has proposed an amendment, diplomats say, that would allow countries to avoid implementing the declaration if it clashed with national laws, religious or cultural values. But some diplomats say this would undermine the entire declaration.

The Muslim Brotherhood warned the declaration would give girls sexual freedom, legalize abortion, provide teenagers with contraceptives, give equality to women in marriage and require men and women to share duties such as child care and chores.

It said the declaration would allow "equal rights to homosexuals, and provide protection and respect for prostitutes" and "equal rights to adulterous wives and illegitimate sons resulting from adulterous relationships."

A coalition of Arab human rights groups - from Egypt, Lebanon, the Palestinian Territories, Jordan and Tunisia - called on countries at the Commission on the Status of Women on Thursday to stop using religion, culture, and tradition to justify abuse of women.

"The current positions taken by some Arab governments at this meeting is clearly not representative of civil society views, aspirations or best practices regarding the elimination and prevention of violence against women and girls within our countries," said the statement issued by the Coalition for Sexual and Bodily Rights in Muslim Societies.

Michelle Bachelet, a former president of Chile and head of U.N. Women, which supports the commission, said the commission was unable to reach a deal a decade ago when it last focused on the theme of women's rights and ending violence against women.

"Ten years later, we simply cannot allow disagreement or indecision to block progress for the world's women," Bachelet told the opening session of the commission last week. "The world is watching ... the violence needs to stop." (Editing by Mohammad Zargham)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=naEuo3pAo-M
Muslimah sebenarnya memang pintar dan setara, tetapi....bagaimana menurut ulama arab, menurut ajaran Islam??

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PNyjt54kr18
Ulama Perkosa dan bunuh anak sendiri (usia 5tahun), tinggal bayar selesai deh....ADIL bukan??

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gnNBcfmF740
allah swt memang sungguh2 memperhatikan KEBUTUHAN KAUM PRIA!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rK-di2Az4WU
Women's Rights in Islam: Divorced at 10 (cont.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlhu8KzAxVk
Saudi Columnist Describes the Treatment of Women in Saudi Arabia as Slavery

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zDgKkPSS9_o
Saudi women demand the right to drive (adil bener)

tambahan:

Di Bahrain nih
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lPz4olc1Les
Muslim Women's Rights - you must see it !

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dtfi0LGvYR8
In Islam, a husband can kill his wife (baca komentnya ya)

http://wikiislam.net/wiki/Honor_Related_Violence_%28Saudi_Arabia%29
http://wikiislam.net/wiki/Honor_Killing_Index

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wN7k-F33VI
Women's Rights in Islam: Forced Sex Anytime, Anywhere II

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EGHAFxwI2qU
Muslim Women are LUCKY to be Beaten!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gzNFWaTjGws
Afghan Wife Abused And Beaten!

Masih banyak lagi....cape deh....

http://www.laskarislam.com/t6121-konsep-islam-tentang-kesetaraan-gender

http://yanluamohdar2010.blogspot.com/2012/03/sistem-hukum-arab-saudi.html

Arab Saudi adalah salah satu negara di Timur Tengah dalam bentuk kerajaan, Undang-Undang Dasar negara adalah Alqur’an dan Sunnah Rasulullah, sendang hukum dasar negara adalah Syari’ah (basic law of government). Dengan demikian, sistem hukumnya adalah sistem hukum Islam, yaitu bersumber dari wahyu (Alqur’an dan Sunnah Rasul), dan Ijtihad.

Hahahaha muslim2,

memang paling gampang menuduh orang lain yang MUSLIM sebagai BUKAN MUSLIM.

Kamupun bisa mengaku sebagai paling ISLAM ibandingkan orang lain, begitu pula sebaliknya.

ARAB SAUDI kamu bilang bukan negara ISLAM??

Luar biasa sekali hahahaha

ULAMA ARAB pun akan kamu bilang bukan muslim juga ya?? Sungguh luar biasa dirimu itu munafiknya slim.

Siapakah yang wajib/pantas dipercaya disini??
UCAPAN MUSLIM MUNAFIK sepertimu ataukah UCAPAN ULAMA ARAB YANG DI DUKUNG OLEH PEMERINTAH ARAB dan JUGA ATURAN PEMERINTAH ARAB YANG BERDASARKAN ALQURAN DAN SUNNAH NABIMU??

ajaran islam memang sungguh mudah ditafsirkan sekehendak hati umatnya (sesuai perkataan seorang netter di sini).

Siapakah kamu jadi berani mengatakan bahwa ARAB SAUDI BUKAN NEGARA ISLAM?? Siapakah kamu itu dibandingkan ULAMA2 ARAB??

SAYA LEBIH PERCAYA MEREKA dibanding kamu kalau berbicara tentang HUKUM ISLAM, dan kenyataan/fakta dilapangan itulah bukti TIDAK ADA KESETARAAN di antara muslim dgn muslimah dalam HUKUM ISLAM.

Kamu mau menyembunyikan dan berputar putar kemanapun tetap tidak merubah KENYATAAN/FAKTA yang ada disana slim.